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ID:
2025-12-30-gary-ida-education-corruption-relationship-wisdomParticipants:
date:
2025-12-30
related people:
["gary-sheng","ida-villavicencio"]
location:
Phone Call
Call Summary: Education Corruption and Relationship Wisdom
Overview
Late evening call where Ida shared insights on education system corruption (charter school kickbacks, foreign ownership patterns) and extensive relationship wisdom including her 30-year marriage testimony. Ida also introduced the idea of connecting Gary with a Christian nurse practitioner named Felicia. Gary expressed confidence that 2026 will be the year he meets his wife.
Key Topics Discussed
Ida's Concussion
- Suffered a head injury from a fall, experiencing confusion, nausea, and dizziness
- Has had concussions before and recognized the symptoms
- Framing: "Devil's busy trying to sabotage Warrior"
- Ida's response: "I'm like bruised and battered and war torn and I still get up"
Charter School Corruption
- Board Member Kickbacks: Board members take bribes to vote for insurance companies, vendors who then get multi-million dollar contracts
- No Education Requirements: "Board members don't have to have any kind of education. They can just be... not even maybe have a high school diploma"
- Foreign Ownership Pattern: "A lot of the leaders, the owners and the principals that they hire are not from the United States... could be Middle Eastern or could be other countries"
- No Certification Requirements: "Charter schools don't require that their people be certified. They don't have the same regulations"
- Pure Business Model: "It's 100% business. They could care less about educating kids in the United States. It's just like McDonald's"
- IDEA Public Schools Example: Founder "started off in a good way" with Teach for America roots but "got greedy and started paying himself like a million dollars a year"
Governor Abbott and Islamic Schools
- Abbott blocked an organization wanting to create Islamic schools in Texas
- Reason given: "The organization that funds them supposedly connects to a terrorist organization"
- Ida's analysis: Foreign entities shouldn't have stake in "one of the most important things in our country, which is our education"
Education Funding Inefficiency
- Texas receives ~$10K per student, $30K+ for special ed
- Additional funding for mental health, technology
- "It doesn't make sense how we're almost 50 in the United States kids, when there are countries that have hardly any resources and they're doing better in reading"
- School-to-prison pipeline connected to second-grade reading levels
"Bottom of the Barrel" Philosophy
Ida's core ministry philosophy for at-risk youth:
- "The bottom of the barrel festers and it infects the whole thing... The bottom of the barrel kids will decide the society"
- "What can I do to help make those bottom of the barrel see themselves in a way, in their truth, in the way God sees them"
- "You're not what they said to you, you're not what has happened to you, you didn't deserve what happened to you. They were wrong"
AI Concerns
- Ida shared articles about AI's psychological dangers
- Carlos's response: "It just follows your lead, Mom. So if you're a schizophrenic psychopath that's talking to AI, then yeah"
- Gary's framing: Environments that "don't lead them to be acting in the image of God"
Potential Romantic Introduction
- Ida introduced the idea of connecting Gary with Felicia Nava, her nurse practitioner
- 32 years old, looks young ("she looks like she's 22")
- Christian, doesn't drink/smoke, "doesn't go to clubs, doesn't go to bars"
- Hispanic but prefers non-Hispanic men ("Hispanic man can be extremely macho")
- Works constantly, wants to lose weight before sharing photos
- Ida: "I'm showing your picture to all these single Christian ladies"
Gary's Marriage Timeline
- Gary: "I believe 2026 is the year I meet my wife"
- Confirmed he wants a family with kids
- Ida: "Then it'll probably be a Latina... Hispanics... usually do want kids"
Christian Relationship Dynamics
On Faithfulness:
- Ida: "I've been married almost 30 years and have not had that desire even when Jesus and I were not on the same page"
- "Being faithful to me was a source of pride for me and integrity and character"
- "It's not hard to not be tempted by things if you know who you are because you're full"
- "People who fall into those traps are empty and feel alone or feel lonely or feel unseen"
On Gender Roles:
- Ida serves her husband: "He sits down and I serve him, and I pick up after him"
- Her mother served her father "kindly, and lovingly"
- Father's rule: "If we didn't learn how to cook, we would never get married"
- Critique of modern women: "They want it all, but they're not willing to do anything"
On Macho Culture:
- Definition: "The man's in charge and you gotta run things by him"
- Ida's ideal: The "Brawny man" lumberjack - "He could build a house. He could build a fire"
- Jesus (her husband): "He's a survivalist. He could make something out of nothing"
- Gary's humorous response: "I can type some stuff on a keyboard. That's what I can do"
Dating Pool Observations
- "There's a ton of Christian women and not very many Christian men"
- Men's conferences fill the Alamo Dome but people aren't pairing up
- Theory: Men have given up because women want everything material but offer nothing in return
- Observation: All single men at her school (30s-50s) don't want relationships
Key Quotes
- "I'm like bruised and battered and war torn and I still get up. That's the good part."
- "The bottom of the barrel festers and it infects the whole thing."
- "It's not hard to not be tempted by things if you know who you are because you're full."
- "I believe 2026 is the year I meet my wife."
Action Items / Takeaways
- Ida recovering from concussion, needs rest
- Felicia introduction pending her updated photos (January timeline)
- Gary believes 2026 is his marriage year
- Discussion validated investigation into education corruption as potential content/exposure opportunity