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Isaac Alexander

Background​

  • Brother of Aleah Alexander, son of Lael and Lakeida Alexander
  • Age: 24-25 years old
  • Part of the Alexander family of 8 children
  • MISSING SINCE JANUARY 2025 - Disappeared approximately 5+ months ago

Missing Person Details​

Disappearance Timeline​

Last Contact: January 2025 (exact date unknown) Last Known Location: Tulsa, Oklahoma area - specifically mentioned "the park" as last place family saw him Duration Missing: 5+ months as of June 2025 Phone Status: Turned off cell phone, unreachable

Circumstances​

Mental Health Context: Isaac has documented mental health issues and was prescribed medication

"He's mentally, he has issues... he's not taking medicine. He hasn't been going to, you know, a psychiatrist or anything."

Voluntary Departure: Described as deliberately leaving, turning off phone

"We don't know where he is. He turned off his cell phone... He basically ran away."

Medication Non-Compliance: Not taking prescribed psychiatric medications No Professional Support: Not currently seeing psychiatrist or mental health professionals

Critical Issue: Unreported to Authorities​

No Missing Person Report Filed: Parents have not reported him missing to police

"Has it been reported? No, because she said... she didn't feel like she needed to report him because he was still in his right mind."

Family Rationale: Mother Lakeida believes he left voluntarily and was "in his right mind" Aleah's Concern: Questions this decision given his mental health status and medication needs

Signs of Possible Life​

Mail Activity: Job applications and car searches being sent to family home

"All she knows is that he's been applying for jobs and looking for a car. So she's getting that in the mail."

Financial Questions: Cash App account deactivated, raising questions about current income/survival

"He said he had money on Cash App and his Cash App is deactivated and it's weird. So I'm like, how are you getting money?"

Family Dynamics​

Relationship with Aleah​

Close Siblings: Aleah and Isaac were both children of Lakeida and biological father (not Lael) Shared Experience: Both experienced family moves and complex family dynamics together Aleah's Advocacy: She is pushing for official missing person report and investigation

Complex Family Structure​

Biological vs. Step-Father: Isaac is son of Lakeida and biological father, not Lael Alexander Full Sibling to Aleah: Shares same biological parents (mother Lakeida, father from Hawaii) Half-Siblings: Related to other Alexander children through mother Lakeida

Historical Context​

Frequent Moves: Family moved multiple times during his childhood/adolescence Family Adjustment: Experienced challenges during Lael's absence working in China Educational Disruption: Likely affected by family's geographic instability

Current Investigation Efforts​

Aleah's Plans​

Location Search: Planning to visit "the park" - last known location Family Pressure: Advocating for parents to file official missing person report Information Gathering: Trying to piece together last known contacts and living situation

Information Gaps​

Unknown Associates: Family doesn't know who he was living with in Tulsa Unknown Income Source: Questions about how he's surviving financially Unknown Current Status: No confirmation of life or safety beyond job application mail

Risk Factors​

Mental Health​

  • History of mental health issues requiring medication
  • Currently not taking prescribed medications
  • No current professional mental health support
  • Potentially in crisis state when disappeared

Vulnerability​

  • Missing for extended period (5+ months)
  • Financial uncertainty
  • No official law enforcement involvement
  • Isolation from family support system

Safety Concerns​

  • Age 24-25, vulnerable adult with mental health needs
  • Unknown living situation or support system
  • Potential for exploitation or harm
  • Weather/seasonal survival concerns

Connection to Gary Sheng​

Indirect Relationship​

Through Aleah: Gary learned of Isaac's situation during family crisis conversation with Aleah Strategic Concern: Missing person case affects Alexander family stability and Gary's collaboration plans Potential Intervention: Gary positioned to provide external perspective on need for professional help

Crisis Management Role​

Family Advisor: Gary could advocate for proper missing person procedures Resource Connection: Potential to connect family with appropriate law enforcement or search resources Professional Guidance: Outside perspective on urgency of situation

Immediate Action Items​

Critical Needs​

  1. Official Missing Person Report: Urgent need for family to file with appropriate law enforcement
  2. Professional Search: Coordinate with police and potentially private investigators
  3. Mental Health Crisis Protocol: Treat as psychiatric emergency given medication non-compliance
  4. Family Intervention: Address family communication and decision-making around crisis

Information Collection​

  • Compile timeline of last known contacts and activities
  • Gather information about Tulsa associates and living situations
  • Document mental health history and medication needs
  • Collect any physical evidence or communications

Strategic Implications​

Family Crisis Priority: Isaac's disappearance represents the most urgent crisis facing the Alexander family Law Enforcement Involvement: Proper reporting could lead to professional search resources Family Trust: How Gary assists with this crisis could significantly impact his relationship with entire Alexander family Medical Emergency: Mental health medication non-compliance for 5+ months represents serious risk

Key Quotes from Aleah (June 18, 2025)​

On Missing Duration:

"He's been missing for, like, since January... We don't know where he is. He turned off his cell phone."

On Mental Health Context:

"He's mentally, he has issues... he's not taking medicine. He hasn't been going to, you know, a psychiatrist or anything."

On Unreported Status:

"Has it been reported? No, because she said... she didn't feel like she needed to report him because he was still in his right mind."

On Signs of Life:

"All she knows is that he's been applying for jobs and looking for a car. So she's getting that in the mail."

On Investigation Plans:

"So, I wanted to go to the park, which is the last place we saw him."

Notes​

Isaac Alexander represents a critical emergency within the Alexander family network that requires immediate professional intervention. His disappearance affects not only his personal safety but also the stability and functioning of the entire family system. Gary's awareness of this situation positions him to potentially provide crucial external perspective and resource coordination for a family that appears overwhelmed and under-responding to a serious crisis.

The case highlights broader patterns within the Alexander family of complex communication, geographic instability, and difficulty accessing appropriate professional support. Resolution of Isaac's situation could significantly impact Gary's strategic relationship with the family while demonstrating his value as crisis intervention resource and trusted advisor.

URGENT PRIORITY: This situation requires immediate attention and professional law enforcement involvement.