Melissa Turner
Basic Info
- Location: San Francisco, CA (South Park area)
- Role/Occupation: Manager of Operations at Daylight Computer
- Met: Edge City Denver event in March 2024 (hosted by Gary)
- Living Situation: Lives with Rebecca at Nautilus house, run by Zelda Poem
Professional Background
- Current Role: Manager of Operations at Daylight Computer
- Company Focus: Environmental computing company, developing daylight tablets
- Recent Pivot: Company pivoting to target homeschool market (Daylight Kids), focusing on red states with education voucher programs
- Key Responsibilities: Building operations, facilities management (handled office fire incident), marketing to Mormon/homeschool communities
- Previous Experience: Extensive background in operations and community building
Personal Background
- Living Arrangement: Shares loft space with Rebecca at Nautilus house in SF
- Housemates: Neil (Indian, popular community connector), Zelda Poem (founder) and her boyfriend live next door
- Values: Prioritizes authentic community building, real experiences over status signaling
- Philosophy: "Let go and let God" approach, values balance over grind culture
Key Projects & Interests
- Nautilus House: Living in experimental community space run by young polymath accelerator
- Community Building: Passionate about creating authentic gathering spaces and real connections
- Space Design: Works with Rebecca on designing community spaces that foster genuine interaction
- High-Profile Hosting: Has hosted Tyler Cowan and other notable figures for dinners
Interaction History
November 2, 2025: Career and Spiritual Journey Video Call
- Context: Reconnection call after meeting at Edge City Denver in March 2024
- Gary's Updates: Shared AI bootcamp experience, spiritual sabbatical, recent baptism, and job search in SF
- Melissa's Updates: Discussed challenges at Daylight Computer, plans to leave by end of year, living situation at Nautilus
- Key Topics Discussed:
- Job market difficulties with AI filtering applications
- SF culture focused on money/status vs. soulfulness
- Real spaces and authentic community as antidote to tech soullessness
- Church scene in SF (Epic Church near South Park Commons)
- Future of community building and "real experiences"
- Gary's family situation and spiritual journey
March 2024: Edge City Denver
- Context: First meeting at Gary's hosted Edge City Denver event
- Initial Connection: Met during community building/tech event in Denver
Strategic Value & Collaboration Areas
- SF Community Access: Well-connected in SF tech/community building scene
- Operational Expertise: Strong background in building and managing operations
- Community Building: Deep understanding of creating authentic gathering spaces
- Network: Connected to influential people in SF tech scene (Tyler Cowan, etc.)
- Potential Collaboration: Weekly dinner club if Gary moves to SF, introductions to SF community
Connections & Network
- Rebecca: Roommate and creative collaborator on space design
- Neil: Housemate, popular community connector who can "synthesize meetings out of nothing"
- Zelda Poem: Nautilus founder, though Melissa has concerns about her experience level
- Tyler Cowan: Has hosted him for dinner at Nautilus
- Daylight Computer Team: Professional network in environmental computing
- SF Community Building Scene: Well-connected in authentic community spaces
Notes & Observations
- Communication Style: Direct, thoughtful, values authentic conversation over networking
- Decision-Making: Practical and strategic, knows when to leave situations that don't align
- Values Alignment: Strong alignment on importance of soulful community vs. status-driven culture
- Spiritual Openness: Open to spiritual conversations, familiar with church scene in SF
- Work Ethic: Values honest work but rejects grind culture, seeks meaningful engagement
- Independence: Maintains financial stability while pursuing authentic community involvement
Current Challenges & Opportunities
- Job Transition: Planning to leave Daylight Computer by end of 2025 due to misalignment with company direction
- Living Situation: Navigating Zelda's inexperience as Nautilus founder while appreciating the community
- Career Direction: Wants to do her own thing but open to learning opportunities at other companies
- AI Job Market: Experiencing difficulty with AI-filtered job applications despite qualifications
Key Quotes & Insights
"I'm either all in or I'm not in. And if I'm not in, then I feel very, like, challenged and bored and like almost, like, desperate in a sense."
"There's so many soulless institutions and buildings and, you know, communities that are really grifting."
"People are craving something that they have a really difficult time building themselves... these real experiences, these real environments, these real magical comings together of people."
"I feel like San Francisco needs Gary Sheng."
Future Plans
- Career: Planning to leave Daylight Computer by end of 2025, exploring own ventures or learning opportunities
- Entrepreneurship: Interested in starting own projects, has "good luck and good graces with the universe"
- Community Building: Continuing involvement in authentic community spaces and events
- Potential SF Life: Open to weekly dinner club and community building if Gary moves to SF
Recent Developments (November 2025)
- Daylight Computer Critique: Increasingly concerned about company's pivot to targeting homeschool market with expensive tablets ($800) without proper understanding of audience
- Office Fire Management: Successfully handled office arson fire incident, demonstrating crisis management skills
- Nautilus Evaluation: Grateful didn't leave paying job for Zelda's uncertain venture, maintaining financial stability while participating in community
- SF Community Insights: Observing trend toward real spaces and authentic experiences as response to tech industry soullessness
- Church Exploration: Aware of Epic Church near her location, noting tech leaders like Gary (Weiss CEO) and Emmet Sher attend
Potential Collaboration Areas
- SF Community Integration: Could facilitate Gary's introduction to authentic SF community building scene
- Operational Consulting: Her crisis management and operations experience could be valuable for scaling ventures
- Event Hosting: Experience hosting high-profile figures could support summit or community events
- Real Space Development: Shared interest in creating authentic gathering spaces vs. "soulless institutions"
- Weekly Dinner Club: Immediate collaboration opportunity if Gary moves to SF
- Network Introductions: Access to SF tech scene through authentic community rather than status-driven networking
Transcripts
| transcript-id | date | one-line-summary |
|---|---|---|
| 2025-11-02-gary-melissa-turner-career-spiritual-journey | November 2, 2025 | Career transitions and SF community building reflections |