Letter to Men from a Godly Woman

You were created to lead, but the world wants you lost.

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Dear Brothers in Christ,

I need to tell you something that the world doesn't want you to hear: you are under attack. There is a deliberate war against men because you are the cornerstone of society. God created Adam first, then Eve. This isn't coincidence—it's divine order.

When men lose connection to their role as servants of God, they lose their identity entirely. And that's exactly what the enemy wants.

I watch my male friends struggle because they've never seen what godly masculinity looks like. If you had a weak father, an alcoholic father, or no father at all, you're not broken—but you are missing a crucial piece. You can't embody what you've never witnessed.

The world offers you false archetypes: chase multiple cars, yachts, and business success, or become a lazy couch dictator who's given up entirely. Both paths lead to emptiness because both miss your true calling.

You were called to lead.

Not to dominate, but to serve. Not to control, but to protect. Not to demand, but to love as Christ loves the church—giving your life for those under your care.

Here's what you need to know: we want to follow you.

I know that sounds impossible in a culture that tells women to be strong and independent. But I'm telling you the truth that my body, my soul, and my spirit all confirm—women are naturally designed to flourish behind a man who knows who he is, who knows he serves God, and who knows how to lead with love and integrity.

When you step into your calling, everything in us responds. We feel safe. We feel free to be feminine. We feel excited to build something beautiful together.

But when you abdicate your role, we have no choice but to step into the masculine space you've abandoned. And we hate it. It exhausts us. It makes us hard in ways we were never meant to be hard.

The 80% divorce rate isn't an accident. It's the inevitable result of abandoning God's design for how men and women build families together.

Your leadership is the foundation everything else stands on.

Families are built on strong men. Communities are built on strong families. Nations are built on strong communities. When you fail to lead, everything crumbles down the line.

But here's the hope: God will give you everything you need to become the man He called you to be. If you want to serve your community, lead your family, and embody Christ's example on earth, He will transform your character. Keep praying. Keep taking action.

Find other men who are walking this path. Learn from them. Become an example for the men coming behind you. Break the cycle of weak or absent fathers.

The spiritual war is real, but you are not fighting alone. Those of us who see what's happening are praying for you. We're waiting for you to step into your calling.

We need you to be the men God created you to be.

Stop asking permission. Stop waiting for the perfect moment. Stop believing the lie that you're not qualified.

You are Adam. Act like it.

With respect and hope,
A Sister in Christ Who Believes in You