A Birthday Letter to Lakeida Alexander
July 8, 2025
Dear Lakeida,
The story you and Lael are writing together—it defies every conventional narrative.
Yes, it's a love story. A beautiful one.
Yes, it's about building business together.
Yes, it's about heritage and family legacy.
This is a deeply redemptive story that forces people to confront what humans can accomplish when they surrender completely to God's purpose.
God knew exactly what He was doing when He brought you into Lael's life.
Lael would not be who he is without you.
Not just because you support his work, but because you've shaped who he's become as a man.
You've brought out his greatest potential by being the grounding force that allows his brilliance to flourish.
You make sure he prioritizes his health when his mind wants to push beyond human limits.
You provide the stability that transforms raw genius into sustainable impact.
You've helped him become the father, husband, and leader God called him to be—someone who can change the world while never losing sight of what matters most.
You've been through everything.
Threats against your family.
Business losses that would break most people.
The weight of raising eight children while supporting a visionary whose mind operates at frequencies most people can't comprehend.
Mental health crises that test every foundation you've built.
The loneliness of being understood by very few.
Yet you've never wavered from what matters most—family first, God first, truth first.
In a world drowning in fake leadership and hollow celebrities, you embody something America desperately needs to see.
Humble servant leadership. Real strength.
The kind of woman who can manage impossible logistics while maintaining moral clarity.
Who can navigate international business while keeping children grounded.
Who can face genuine hardship while never losing sight of the bigger picture.
You are, in many ways, America's mom.
The model of what's possible when someone chooses substance over spotlight, character over convenience, family over fame.
Your partnership with Lael isn't just personal—it's civilizational.
You're not just raising your eight children.
You're demonstrating what strong families can accomplish.
What happens when parents refuse to lower their standards.
What emerges when someone chooses the narrow path that leads to life.
The world needs to see what you've built.
Not because you're seeking attention, but because humanity is starving for real examples of what's possible.
People need proof that families can thrive, that partnerships can last, that principled living still works.
This next year won't be easy.
The old world is collapsing and most people aren't prepared for what's coming.
But you've been preparing your family for decades.
You've built something that can weather any storm because it's built on the Rock.
On your birthday, I want you to know—I see you.
I see how much you've poured into your family and, through them, into humanity itself.
I see the sacrifice, the wisdom, the unwavering commitment to what's right even when it's hard.
The story isn't finished.
The best chapters are still being written.
And I'm grateful beyond words that God put you and Lael together at such a young age in the river towns of Louisiana to build this garden of light, of truth, of Christ-centered progress.
Happy birthday, Lakeida.
Thank you for showing us what's possible.
Thank you for choosing the harder path.
Thank you for being exactly who God called you to be.
With love and deep respect,
Gary